Got Rizz? What's a Gyat? A Parents Guide to Tween and Teen Slang, Explained (2024)

Teens in each generation develop a unique language of their own—and the same can be said of Gen Z and Gen Alpha. Over the years, parents have heard terms ranging from "outta sight" and "phat," to things like "sick" and "gag me with a spoon." Every decade has been marked by its special phrases that quickly grow outdated (and might just become "cheugy") to the teens of the future.

But even while being a part of youth culture—and the slang that defines it—when you're young, it can get harder and harder to keep up with the latest teen jargonby the time you're the parent of one.

Here's what you need to know to keep up with the kids.

Why Kids Use Slang

Trying to figure out what teens are saying is increasingly challenging, as the explosion ofsocial media, memes,digital communication, and the ever-present cell phone means teen-speak is evolving faster than ever. Once you think you've mastered a few phrases, you're probably already out of touch again.

Some of this slang enters the mainstream vernacular—and by that point, is no longer cool—or "sic." But most of these words simply disappear as they lose favor with kids and are almost instantaneously replaced with new ones.

So, as "with it" and up to speed as we adults think we may be, most of us could benefit from a primer on the latest teen slang. We cover it all below, fromsocial media acronymsand text message shorthand to code words for drugs, friends, and parties.

Be Smart

It's important to educate yourself about common teen slang so that you understand what your teen is talking about—both online and IRL.

General Slang

Teen slang words may be confusing to those not in the know, but most are harmless and a part of a teen's identity. Kids use these words toexert independence, sound cool, and/or to fit in with their peers. They seek to differentiate themselves from their parents and want to feel unique, free, and even revolutionary. Using slang helps teens do that while also bonding with friends.

Below are some common teen slang words you might hear:

AF- Stands for "as f**k," used to emphasize a statement (i.e. "she's cool AF")
Ate - To succeed at something. "She ate..." as in "ate that up"
Cap - Something that is not true or a lie
Cheugy- Something that is out of date or a person who is trying too hard
Cringe - Word to describe embarrassing or awkward behavior
Dead- Something is so funny that the speaker has "died" of laughter
Dope- Cool or awesome
Extra- Over-the-top, extreme
Fit- Short for outfit
Fire- Hot, trendy, amazing, or on point (formerly "straight fire")
GOAT- "Greatest of All Time"
Go Off- A phrase said to encourage someone to continue, usually when they're ranting about something (can also be sarcastic, as in, "but go off, I guess")
Gucci- Good, cool, or going well
Hits Different- Something that "hits different" lands differently than usual
IRL - In real life, as opposed to online
IYKYK- Stands for "if you know, you know"
Lit- Amazing, cool, or exciting
Low-Key- Added to a feeling or desire to downplay it (i.e. "I'm low-key freaking out")

Mood- A word to signify agreement or a specific vibe
OMG- An abbreviation for "Oh my gosh"or "Oh my God"
ONG- Basically the equivalent of "I swear to God"
Preppy - High end and stylish, connoting wealth. Can also go negative, as in conformist, with "Preppy Nation"
Rizz - Short for charisma. Someone who's charming, or has "game"
Salty- Bitter, angry, agitated
Sic/Sick- Cool or sweet
Sigma - A male who is popular, but is also a loner who separates himself from the crowd
Slay- To be extremely stylish or successful
Sleep On- To be ignorant to something or someone's value (i.e. "Don't sleep on the new Ariana single")
Snatched- Looks good, perfect, or fashionable; the new "on fleek"
TBH- To be honest
Tea- Gossip, situation, story, or news
Thirsty- Trying toget attention
Vanilla - Boring/Beige
Yassify- A dramatic makeover, or to apply several beauty filters to a picture until the person is totally unrecognizable
Yeet- To throw something in anger
YOLO- "You Only Live Once" (often used ironically)

People or Relationships

Relationships are an important aspect of adolescence. In the teen years, kids develop their own identities and explore who they are outside of their families.Interactions with their peers are a key component of this process—and they often create unique words to describe their friendships andromantic relationships.

Here are some slang words your teen might use when talking about other people:

Compound Slang

Teens often create shortcuts by combining two words together. To understand what they mean, you need to know the definition of each word.

Here are some examples of compound teen slang:

Crashy- Crazy and trashy, like a trainwreck
Crunk- Gettinghigh and drunk at the same time, or crazy and drunk
Hangry- Hungry and angry
Requestion- Request and a question, or to question again
Tope- Tight and dope

Parties, Drugs, and Sex

Teens are prone to experiment and push boundaries—and also to talk a big game. So, sometimes slang words will simply be used in fun or boasting. However, sometimes they may indicate risky (or potentially risky) behavior.

For the most part, teen get-togethers are a fun rite of passage and aren't automatically anything to be concerned about. However, parties (and related teen slang) can raise concerns over supervision, appropriate behavior, the use of illegal substances, alcohol, peer pressure, bullying, and unprotected sex.

Whether or not your child is involved in anyinappropriate or dangerous activities, you'll want to know what they're talking about and be attuned to any words that might indicate possible trouble.

Below is a list of some social slang to be aware of:

53X- Sex
Body count- The number of people someone has slept with
CU46- Seeyou for sex
Dayger- Party during the day
Function/Func- Party
Gyat - Big butt, as "Girl, your *ss thick" or the reaction, "goddamn"
Kick back- Small party
Molly- Ecstasy (MDMA),a dangerousparty drug
Netflix and chill- Used as a front for inviting someone over to make out (or maybe more)
Plug- Someone who can hook you up with drugs
Rager- Big party
Smash- To have casual sex
Sloshed- To be drunk
Throw down- To throw a party
Turnt- To be high or drunk (formerly "turnt up")
X- Ecstasy
WTTP- Want to trade photos?
LMIRL- Let's meet in real life

Resources for Parents

Teen slang changes continuously. If you aren't sure what a slang term means, the websiteUrban Dictionarycan help. It's dedicated to keeping up with today's slang and is a resource thatparents can use. Be warned, however, as it features user-submitted content thatmay be crude.

Slang APPs

There are alsophone apps that can help you translate teen slang.The Slang Dictionaryis just one example of a mobile app that can decode your teen's secret language.

Key Takeaways

Aim to balance safety with privacy and independence for your teen. Talk with your teen about the concerns you have, your family rules and expectations, as well as safe and healthy social media usage.

Teenagers need to be able to haveprivate conversationswith their friends. And clearly, you can't monitor what your teen is doing or talking about all the time. Still, you may want tomonitor your teen's social mediafeeds at times, and pay attention when they're chatting with their pals. If you see or hear conversations that worry you—or that you can't decode—be ready to take action as needed.