Chef Refuses to Cook for Nephew's Birthday Party: Family Drama Unfolds 🎂🍽️😲 (2024)

The Birthday Cake Request 🎂 A Bigger Ask: Cooking for the Party 🍽️ The Menu Dilemma 📋 Too Much Work? ⏰ The Decision 💭 Past Experiences 😒 Already Doing the Cake 🍰 Family Disappointment 😔 Partner's Confrontation 😠 Not a Personal Chef! 🙅‍♀️ Passive-Aggressive Partner 🤬 No Payment Offered 💸 Possible Bill Splitting? 🧾 Sending a List 📝 The Plan 📋🤔 The Aftermath: Family Drama Continues 😲🍽️🎂 NTA. Family drama over birthday cake. OP has the right to say no. 💁‍♀️ Chef refuses to cook for nephew's party, family drama ensues 🎂🍽️😲. Commenters support decision. NTA refuses to cook for entitled SIL's party demands 😲 NTA refuses to cook for nephew's party, family drama ensues 😲 Chef-nephew conflict over free meal. NTA, but ignored. NTA for not wanting to cook and host a party. Suggestions given. NTA. Stand your ground and establish boundaries. It's not just cooking for family, it's catering. 💪 Chef stands up to entitled in-laws, refuses to cook 👩‍🍳 Empowering SIL to cook her own party food. 🍕 Partner should offer to help cook for nephew's party 👨‍🍳 Chef's family demands free labor, NTA for refusing 👏 Dump the boyfriend and his family 👍, keep the cake 🎂 Chef stands up for their time and expertise at family party. Cooking for a party takes effort, compromise suggested but contested 😲 NTA offered to make cake, not cater whole meal. Explain logistics. Don't let them take advantage of you! 🙏 Burgers and dogs for a first birthday, sister-in-law is obnoxious. NTA. Last minute catering request for a birthday party? NTA. Don't undervalue someone's profession, even if it's a hobby. NTA. Family feud over cooking for nephew's party ends in compromise Chef refuses to cook for nephew's party, and they're not wrong. Cooking for free? NTA. Family drama over birthday party 🎂 NTA. A chef's skills aren't free. Cleaning analogy on point 👍 Chef shares frustrations with being expected to cook for free. Setting boundaries with family is tough, but NTA for refusing. Stand your ground! NTA. Offer recipes for kitchen use 👍 Family expects free catering for party, commenter says GTFO. 😂 Paying family for their services is fair 👍 NTA for refusing to cater a 1-year-old's high-end party 😲 You're not the a**hole for setting boundaries with family 👍 NTA for refusing to cook for nephew's party. Compromise suggestion 😊 Overbearing chef offers supplies and transportation for nephew's party 🎉 Polite and firm response to family drama 🙌 NTA for refusing to cook for family event. Blue collar workers face similar expectations. Chef shuts down entitled family demanding free catering 😍 No dish duty for the chef! NTA strikes again 💯 One-year-old's party needs multi-course meal? NTA suggests cooking himself. Declining to cook for family party, NTA. Be a guest. Redditor sympathizes with chef, calls out spineless spouse. NTA 😊 Compromise rejected: Niece's mom's reaction is a red flag 🚨 Chef justified in refusing to cook for nephew's party. 👍 Family drama unfolds as chef refuses to cook for party 🎂 Commenter defends chef's decision not to cook for free. Partner doesn't get it? NTA for refusing to cook 😏 Cooking for a party 3 hours away? NTA asks important questions 🤔 Cooking requires time and effort. NTA for refusing. 👩‍🍳 Stand your ground! Cooking for entitled family? No way! 💪 Family drama over a birthday party. NTA stands their ground. Don't be a free caterer for entitled family members 💯 Family drama over cooking for celebrations, NTA stands firm 😍 NTA, but SO's family is the real party pooper 😒 Setting boundaries with family is important. NTA for refusing. Husband doesn't support chef's decision: Family drama continues 🤷🏻‍♀️ No pay, no cook. NTA for refusing. Family drama ensues 🤷🏻‍♂️ No respect for your time? Skip the cake and party! Savage breakup advice sparks discussion on family drama. Don't be a doormat, stand your ground and value your work 💪 Commenter supports chef's decision with thumbs up emoji. Top chef refuses to cook for family, calls them out 😭 Spouse won't cook for family? NTA, let him handle it 🙌